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10 Reasons to Meet Mom Before Making a Commitment

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June 28th, 2011

At some point in a relationship that’s developing toward a long-term commitment, there’s the ‘meet my family’ phase. It can be a nerve-wracking experience, a potential deal-breaker, or a wonderfully pleasant window into your love interest’s heritage. Whatever the outcome might be, there are 10 good reasons why you should meet their mother before making that commitment.

  1. A mother’s approval of a relationship can be like gaining an invincible ally in your quest to fully win this tug of love. There can be no underestimating the importance of a mother’s seal of approval – or disapproval.
  2. For a man, meeting your woman’s mother can tell you a lot about her. Physical characteristics, for instance. What will she look like in 20 or 30 years?
  3. For a woman, you can learn some interesting things about your man – and there is no one more willing to tell them than his Mom.
  4. Aspects of each other’s heritage – some that may not have even occurred to either of you – can sometimes be more readily apparent in the attitudes, mannerisms and lifestyles of their parents. If the saying, “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree” is to be believed, then to meet Mom is to sit beneath the tree.
  5. Mothers have a way of filling in some of the blanks in one’s past. What your partner may not recall – or chooses not to recall – can be laid bare in conversations with dear old Mother.
  6. It’s always best to get a sneak preview of what your in-laws are going to be like, and how you’ll get along. You’d rather know ahead of time than after you’re fully invested  in your relationship that you don’t quite hit it off.
  7. If children are in your future plans, you’ll also be meeting their grandmother. How suited to that role she seems to you is of the utmost interest. Your kids are apt to spend a lot of time with her.
  8. Mothers, as the matriarchs of the family, can grease the wheels, so to speak, in making connections with the rest of your partner’s family.
  9. Meeting her mother can give you insight as to how she’s apt be as a mother, a wife, and a home-maker.
  10. Meeting his mother can provide you a deeper look into his attitudes toward the opposite sex, how important his relationship is with his mother, his level of independence.

There’s no set time in a relationship when you should take your partner to meet the family. You’ll need to feel it out as you go, but it’s best to do so as soon as possible after you’re thinking commitment.

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Archive for June, 2011

10 Reasons to Meet Mom Before Making a Commitment

Posted in Dating Ideas  by admin
June 28th, 2011

Shakespeare’s work has been around so long I think it’s been analyzed to death. I don’t claim to be an expert, but let’s take a look at ten love lessons he inspired and see how they can be applied to our modern lives.

  1. False face must hide what the false heart doth know – If it looks like your partner is hiding something he probably is, whether he realizes it or not. It’s likely a good idea to dump this guy.
  2. Friendship is constant in all other things save in the office and affairs of love – The best way to lose a friend is to turn the relationship into a romance. If you want to save your friendship, don’t get romantically involved.
  3. Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none – This is a good lesson to live by. Give your love freely, but be careful who you really trust. If you take care not to hurt others, you will live an honorable and rewarding life.
  4. Love is blind – Although we may be attracted by good looks, true love doesn’t care about appearance. The real thing will last long after we’re old and ugly.
  5. Love looks not with eyes, but with the mind – This is along the same lines, but goes a little deeper. You’ll find that a sound relationship is built more on the intellect you have in common rather than physical attraction.
  6. Love sought is good, but given unsought, is better – Aren’t there songs written about this? No matter how hard you look, love won’t be found until it finds you, and that’s the best kind.
  7. One can love not wisely but well – Even though people may call you crazy, follow your heart. Relationships based on common sense or mutual advantage won’t be as fulfilling as those based on true love that is nurtured.
  8. The course of true love never did run smooth – There’s always going to be bumps in the road for any relationship. How you deal with them will determine whether your love will endure. Also, a love affair with no conflicts at all will probably not last.
  9. They do not love that do not show their love – If you really love someone, you have to be able to show it. Otherwise, how can your love be true? Don’t take for granted that your partner knows you care without confirming it once in awhile.
  10. What stronger breastplate than a heart untainted – Those who are pure of heart can endure anything. If you strive to be honest and forthright in your relationships with others, no one else can hurt you.

Even though Shakespeare penned his work about 400 years ago, he must have been a very wise man, because so many of his lessons endure to this day. Of course, love never changes throughout the centuries. People will always struggle to find true love and keep it and Shakespeare was talented enough to convey how truly elusive it is.

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Archive for June, 2011

10 Reasons to Meet Mom Before Making a Commitment

Posted in Dating Ideas  by admin
June 28th, 2011

You can have a lot of fun when you are dating online. There are so many people to meet and almost everyone has an interesting story to tell. You need to have a game plan though. You have to be able to say something that is going to stick in their minds and get their attention. In this article we are going to look at 10 online dating pickup lines.

While cheesy lines are not going to work on the ladies there are some lines that have stood the test of time. Just make sure that you use the ones that really work and don’t send the girl laughing out the door with a “Did you fall from heaven?” line. Let’s go on to look at 10 online dating pickup lines.

Number 1 – Come Here Often?

This may sound funny and it is but it can get some good responses and genuine answers. People want to open up and share about why they are one the site. You can really open up a lot of conversation by this simple question.

Number 2 – You Give Great Email

This one is a little sexual so make sure that you use this with people that are interested in getting close. You can use a little bit of a toned down version to make it non sexual. You might say something like “You sure can write an email.”

Number 3 – You Are An Excellent Writer

Complimenting people on their knowledge and skill is a great way to connect and make them feel appreciated and enjoyed. Writing is a big talent and if you really like the way that they write you might as well tell them. Compliments are always a good way to go.

Number 4 – Beautiful Picture

Tell him or her that you like their picture. If there was a beautiful lank mark behind then you might say that you barely noticed it because they stuck out in such a great way. Commenting on the person’s looks should be a second compliment since they may think that you only like them because they look good if you say this the first thing.

Number 5 – The Sign

Find out what their sign is and tell them that all of your favorite people are that sign. Some people are very interested in signs and this may get their attention pretty quickly.

Number 6 – Online

You look gorgeous online but I bet you look even better in person. Tell them you think that it is impossible that a photo could do them justice even though they do look like they photograph quite well.

Number 7 – Writing Personality

I love the way you use your adjectives. No one quite says things like you. Everyone has a little bit of uniqueness about the way that they write things online. This may be one of the things that attracts you to them. If it is, let them know.

Number 8 – Do You Like Me?

If you want to get down to the point you can just simply ask them if they like you. Such confidence and honesty can be a real turn on, especially for women. Women really like to see a guy that is open and honest with his feelings. This gives the girl a great opportunity to play hard to get though.

Number 9 -  Have I Met You Before?

You can email them with the subject line “Have I met you before?” and then in the email say “of course I have if only in my dreams.” This is a little bit on the cheesy side but if you have already got her liking you in other emails you may find that she thinks that it is very cute and sweet.

Number 10 – Famous Person

You can say something like “You look like Halle Berry but hotter”. Replace with the celebrity of your choosing. You may want to look and see which celebrity they admire and want to be like before saying this line to make it extra special. You should also choose someone that looks a little bit like them for real.

If you wanted to know some easy pickup lines you now know 10 online dating pickup lines. You should have some great success as you are doing your online dating. You will be glad that you took some extra time out to find lines that actually work on both women and men depending on who you are after.

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